My friend died today.
Did he know
That he had friends
That he died
That it happened today?
What is today when time has lost its meaning?
It seems the slow death has won
But only for today.
The peaceful visage
His best look in months
Spelt release, relief, respite.
He could not say goodbye
He did not say farewell
He forgot.
He just left
Going in Peace and quiet
As his soul melded with the dawn.
With sense of humour intact
He flipped therapeutic lying with a silent
“See you later.”
He of the melodious voice
Now sings in the angelic choir.
“Rest in Peace”, friend.
“See you later.”
The Meander:
Paula, my condolences to you and the rest of your family. Also many thanks for your inspiring poem that chronicles the relationship with your belove Bob. Your devotion to him was exemplary and a true testament to what the marriage vow “in sickness and in health” means. may the wonderful memories that you shared with him comfort you and may his soul RIP.
Your kind words are well taken as I know they are well meant. However, Bob is a real friend and husband of my very dear friend who is one of my Lifeliners – the support group.
My Bert is still here and doing quite well, considering.
Take care. Stay well.
Paula my friend,
It has been too long and there is far too much to tell you, of the goings on of my life.
I just wanted to say, I’m sorry for your loss. I too am grieving the loss of someone; my father. I can’t even put into words, how difficult and unbearable the entire ordeal was. How painful and emotionally draining it was. Worst experience of my life so far.
Trust me when I say I know the pain you feel and the emptiness inside.
Just know I am thinking of you and have been for quite some time. I hope one day soon we can catch up. Till than take care my friend.
Stephanie. Heartfelt condolences on the passing of your dad. You did the best for him and now he is at rest.
As for my Bert he is hanging in there and wonders of wonders he has not lost his sense of humour though his speaking ability is becoming less and less. I am grateful that I can see him every day.
Bob was a friend and a Lifeliner. His wife is coping with the help of family and friends. You might have met both of them. Not sure.
It would be good to catch up and who knows perhaps it could come sometime this year?
Take crae and stay well.
Thinking of you as you journey through.
Cheryle Hanna
Thank you. This passing hit home as he and my Bert were going step by step until recently. Bob’s wife is a dear friend.
Bert is still here and doing as well as can be expected given the circumstances. My daily visits to him amnchors my day. I am grateful that I do have that opportunity.
I’m very sorry for the loss of your friend Paula, you’ve written him a lovely tribute.
Thank you, Andrea.
My heart goes out to Bob’s family and friends. You have written a beautiful tribute, Paula.
Thank you!
Paula. Thank you. It meant so much to call you and Bert our friends. The journey has been long but with so many wonderful memories of dancing at the Valentines dance and the four of us the first ones on the floor to Bert snitching Bob’s coffee mug. Love you Jackie
Love you too, dear friend and mourn with you. Bob is at rest.
My heart goes out to you, dear Paula… What a beautiful farewell poem.
Sincere condolences, with love and support always.
Kate
I better put a change on the post. My Bert is alive and doing as well as can be expected given the circumstances. This is really for a friend. I do write a tribute when anyone from the support passes.
Thank you for the kind words. I know you are always in our corner.
Thanks Paula…relieved to hear that Bert is as fine as can be. I wasn’t entirely sure…🌻🌺🌹
Condolences nonetheless for your friend. 🤗
Bob was a dear friend and one of my Lifeliners. We have some cherished memories. It is a pity that my Bert will not know or comprehend anything about this death.
Lovely🙏😇
Yes, Bob is resting in peace now.